Category — Fun Life

Goodwin children (from left: Brenda, Nora, Sonya and Kenneth); Safford, Arizona; 1974.

Hemmings children (from left: Keillor, Kerrick, Kennah and Kellen); Tempe, Arizona; 2010.

I thought it would be fun to show my sisters and I wearing the coordinating Easter dresses my mom made for us when we were young, and then show Kennah wearing the dress I made for her this year. (My brother and my sons had to settle for store-bought attire in these photos, but I’ve promised my boys that I’ll try to at least give their Easter shirts some mom-made attention next year.) Here are a few more fun shots of Kennah (and her baby doll, Mary) wearing their matching dresses. (I don’t know how my mom made three whole dresses for her daughters several years in a row! It was all I could manage to put together one dress—plus a quarter-size replica—in the weeks leading up to today!)

Kennah in her "sparkly pink butterfly" confection—because it reminds me of cotton candy—of an Easter dress.

Perfect match: Kennah and Mary.

…from Kellen (who created an army of candy-covered robots)…

…from Kerrick (who assembled button-candy cell phones with sweet text messages)…

…and from Kennah (who combined beauty and brains—in the form of fancy folded cardstock rings wrapped around rolls of Smarties) in her creations.

Handmade valentines are a tradition at our house (though I admit that sometimes we all look longingly at the hassle-free boxed cards at the store—complete with elaborate treats or cute tattoos). These are the designs the kids chose this year (from one of the places we usually look for ideas, www.familyfun.com). With a little (OK, a lot of) encouragement from me, they worked really hard for several days to cut out, color, glue or tape and address each one. Kellen, Kerrick and Kennah were so proud of their painstaking efforts and excited to give the end results to their friends. And the projects did kick some character-building qualities—creativity, problem-solving and stick-to-it-iveness—into high gear for each of them. It was enough to warm this crafty mom’s heart—at least until this time next year, when we get set to do it all again. Gotta L-O-V-E it!

. . .things that changed my life in 2009:

1. Preparing and eating real food. Although my interest in the real-food movement actually began in 2008—when I first encountered such books as Barbara Kingsolver’s Animal, Vegetable, Miracle and Michael Pollan’s The Omnivore’s Dilemma—my personal journey began in earnest this year. I read more books, including Sally Fallon’s Nourishing Traditions and Nina Planck’s Real Food. I looked for and found local sources for grass-fed beef and lamb, pastured chickens and eggs, raw dairy, and in-season fruits and vegetables. I learned how to sprout grains and beans, as well as soak and dehydrate nuts and seeds; I tried my hand at making butter and cheese; and I converted the recipes for many of my family’s favorite dishes to meet real-food ideals. My husband and children went along—warily but willingly—on the journey with me, as we cut back on the refined flour and sugar in our diet and incorporated such new and strange (at first) staples as fermented cod liver oil and kombucha tea.

2. Reading some great books. Clearly, I’m a believer in the statement “You are what you eat.” And by now, you’re probably getting the idea that “You are what you read” would be another suitable credo for me. Simply put, books are—and always have been—a big deal in my life. I can recall at least one engaging novel I read in 2009—The Girls, by Lori Lansens (a diary-style portrayal of the life of conjoined twins)—but for the most part it was a nonfiction year for me. Aside from the above-mentioned food titles, the rest of what I read mostly revolved around marriage and parenting. Favorites here include The Mission of Motherhood and The Ministry of Motherhood, both written by homeschooling mom of four Sally Clarkson. I can so relate to the personal challenges she recounts—from the physical and emotional strength required to be a 24/7 caregiver, nurturer and teacher, to the doubts and feelings of inadequacy that often creep in from a culture that places almost no value on those roles. What I so appreciate about Clarkson’s writing is her ability to transcend all of that—and to help me do it, too!—by putting those roles into an eternal perspective. Her books gave me a renewed sense of purpose that I continue to cling to on those difficult days when I desperately need a good answer to the question, “Why am I doing what I’m doing?” Another author who struck a similar chord with me this year is Gary Thomas, whose book Sacred Marriage has garnered him speaking engagements at churches worldwide. Shawn and I were able to attend one here in Arizona in September, and since then I’ve added a few of his books (including Sacred Influence and Sacred Parenting) to my list. Sacred Marriage (subtitled What if God Designed Marriage to Make Us Holy More Than to Make Us Happy?) intelligently and thoughtfully exposes the ruse of romantic love as a means to (elusive) fulfillment and instead challenges those of us who choose marriage to see the difficulties it inevitably brings as a way for God to shape our character and for us to demonstrate our commitment to Him. I haven’t delved into Sacred Parenting yet, but from all indications, the theme continues on its pages. In a particularly powerful essay Thomas uses to open a book of devotions based on Sacred Parenting, he writes: “I’d like to suggest a motto for Christian family life: ‘God is in the room.’ While God is always there, so often we act and think and behave and speak as if he were not. . . .Think of how differently we might treat our children in those frustrating moments if we responded to them with the knowledge that God is in the room. If we truly believed that the God who designed them and who is passionate about their welfare was literally looking over our shoulders, might we be a little more patient, a little more understanding?. . .Tell it to yourself, every morning, every noontime, every evening: God is in the room. Tell it to each other, every time you’re tempted to yell, or to criticize, or ridicule, or even ignore each other: God is in the room. Tell it to your children, throughout the day: God is in the room. Let’s keep telling it to ourselves and to each other until we practice it and live it, until we live and breathe with the blessed remembrance: God is in the room.”

3. Having a homeschool room (where I especially need to practice the above-mentioned motto!). When we added two bedrooms and a bathroom onto our small home last year, we decided to convert one of the existing bedrooms into a homeschool room. It meant that our four children would have to double up and share the remaining bedrooms, but we were all OK with that. Shawn outfitted the room’s closet with plenty of shelves to store books and supplies, and he built new cases to replace the broken ones on three cast-off desks from the charter school where one of my sisters works. A bulletin board, dry-erase board and world map later, we were in business! And we haven’t looked back to the days when books, papers and manipulatives almost always covered the living-room floor and the dining-room table. Sure, we sometimes still “do school” in those other rooms, but having a place to put everything away when we’re finished—and a door to close when we haven’t had time to tidy up the mess—has gone a long way toward keeping me sane (see No. 2) and all of us organized and on track.

4. Finding financial peace. No, we didn’t win the lottery, receive an unexpected inheritance or invent the Next Big Thing and suddenly become fabulously wealthy. (I’m sure I would have remembered if any of those things had occurred this year!) What we did do was solidify our financial philosophy as a single-income family with a tight budget and a desire to live relatively simply and to be completely debt-free. Toward both of those ends, we’ve begun a serious campaign to get rid of things that we don’t really need or especially love, and to pay off everything we owe (which is really just the mortgage, a car loan and a credit-card balance). Our champion of sorts in the process has been Dave Ramsey, author of The Total Money Makeover, host of radio broadcast The Dave Ramsey Show, and creator of such catchphrases as “Sell so much stuff the kids think they’re next,” and “Live like no one else, so that later, you can live (and give) like no one else.” Shawn and I completed his 13-week Financial Peace University course at our church this fall and discovered that we were actually in decent shape with regard to some areas of our money, but that we needed to make a few changes and do a better job in other areas. Above all, the class helped us talk things through and agree on some goals to keep us focused. We’ve even gotten the kids on board, switching their “allowance” (which implies entitlement to free money) to “commission” (which solidifies the concept that money is earned).

5. Receiving an iPod Touch. As a lover of all things Apple, I’d had my eye on an iPhone for awhile, but because the only cell-phone carrier to offer it doesn’t provide good coverage in the areas I travel most frequently, I’d pretty much ruled it out. As a second choice, I liked the iPod Touch, but without the phone functionality I couldn’t really justify buying one. “Sure, it’s cool, but would I really use it?” I wondered. Shawn surprised me with one on Mother’s Day, and that question was quickly answered in the affirmative. The marketing lingo “There’s an app for that” became a reality for me as I started to use the iPod Touch for all things usual (checking e-mail and Facebook, surfing the Web, and keeping the kids entertained with movies, music and games) and unusual (recording Kellen’s first piano recital and watching TV—mostly late-night online streaming of current episodes of The Office and Parks and Recreation). And sometimes it’s an absolute sanity saver: It makes multitasking a cinch, as I can use it while I’m cooking (see No. 1) or folding laundry. And at the risk of sounding like a really bad homeschooling mom, I occasionally use it to tune out the constant din created when 2 Bigs + 4 Littles almost always occupy the house under 1 Midsize Roof (see No. 2). Whenever I need a little break, I simply pop in the ear buds and download a podcast of The Dave Ramsey Show (see No. 4) or listen to my current playlist faves (the cast recording from the Broadway musical Wicked, or the new Sidewalk Prophets album, These Simple Truths. To hear the Sidewalk Prophets song Just Might Change Your Life—which is, after all, the theme of this post, click the play button of the audio player below.)

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6. Starting this blog. I’ve only been a blogger for half of the year, but the impact of finally finding my voice—I’ve never been much of a first-person writer—as well as the guts to share it here—I worried whether I had anything relevant to say—has been huge. I’ve “met” so many other bloggers who are living inspired—and inspiring!—lives, and I’m writing more frequently than I have in a long time. And I can’t leave out the incredible learning curve I had to conquer just to set up the blog and publish a post! When I first started, I didn’t know a tag from a category or a plugin from a pingback—and HTML code? Forget about it! (Click here to find out about the Beginner to Blogger course that helped me get up and running.) Not that I’m all super tech-savvy now. I have much more to learn, for sure, but I’ve come a long way since I began, well, at The Beginning (my first post).

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While a white Christmas is never in the forecast for us desert dwellers, we did get to see some snow—and even play in the powder—during a short post-holiday visit with family in northern Arizona. Following are a few photos of the fun:

Kellen carries some cold ammo for a snow battle.

Kerrick is ready to fire back.

Kennah is sitting pretty.

Keillor is sitting, er, handsome?

Kennah and Keillor enjoy a cousin-powered tandem sled ride.

Keillor chills out with cousin Brandon.

Kennah leans on cousin Kayleigh.

The littlest snowman: Keillor surveys his snow-covered surroundings.

Last night, as we completed our advent season readings (from Bartholomew’s Passage, by Arnold Ytreeide), we were discussing God’s appointment of guardian angels to surround and protect each of us from harm. Kerrick asked (in the way that only a Star Wars-obsessed 7-year-old boy can ask), “You mean, like a force field?”

Exactly, buddy.

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A new holiday tradition for our family this year was an advent tree—a small prelighted, artificial tree to which we added an ornament every evening of the advent season. The idea was inspired by an event hosted the Monday after Thanksgiving by a friend and fellow homeschooling mom, Tamara Dirks. (Click here to see her blog.) She invited friends, friends of friends and even strangers to come hear storyteller Darlene Danninger talk about the idea that inspired her book, Let’s Make a Jesus and Me Tree. (Darlene, also the author of numerous other self-published books, proved to be an energetic, entertaining and engaging speaker. She’s been called “a one-of-a-kind encourager” and serves as a chaplain at one of the municipal police departments in our area. Click here to visit her Web site.)

Darlene explained the significance of various aspects of such a tree in teaching the message of Christ’s birth, life, death and resurrection—and of His desire, expressed throughout the Bible, for a relationship with every human being:
• The tree itself should be an evergreen, she said, to demonstrate that God’s love is not seasonal, but unconditional and everlasting.
• The tree’s triangular shape (narrow at the top and wide at the bottom) represents the Trinity—God the Father, Jesus the Son and the Holy Spirit.
• All of the ornaments are tied onto the tree with red ribbon to symbolize the redeeming blood shed by Jesus on the cross.
Beyond those three symbols, which Darlene described as “essential,” the possibilities for ornaments are limitless. Her book lists 100 ideas—from angels to watches—and includes Bible verses that can be attached to each one to explain its significance. At the end of the evening, Tamara sent each guest home with a complimentary book and a complete set of 25 ornaments to start their own tree.

My kids enjoyed taking turns each evening before bed selecting an ornament to put on our tree. Following are their favorites, along with the Bible verses that accompanied each one:
• Kellen—lamb: “Behold the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world.” —John 1:29
• Kerrick—calendar: “ ‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the Lord, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.’ ”—Jeremiah 29:11
• Kennah—heart: “God sees not as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart.”—1 Samuel 16:7
• Keillor—styrofoam snowball: “ ‘Come now and let us reason together,’ says the Lord. ‘Though your sins are as scarlet, they will be as white as snow; though they are red like crimson, they will be as wool.’ ”—Isaiah 1:18

I waited until our tree was complete to share it here and show its full effect. Next year, we hope to make a few more ornaments to add to our initial collection. Thank you, Tamara and Darlene, for the inspiration!

By now—if your house is anything like mine—the stockings have been unstuffed, the presents have been opened and everyone is enjoying the day we’ve been anticipating all month. It’s been fun counting down to this time with a “carol a day” from my collection of Christmas CDs. I hope you’ve found a new favorite or two among the songs you heard here. As I ponder the countdown possibilities for next year—I’m thinking ornaments!—I thought I’d share a carol that captures a sense of winding down before the new year comes and we start all over. Here’s Amy Grant, with Til the Season Comes ’Round Again from her CD A Christmas to Remember:

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2009 was a pretty typical year in the Hemmings household—which means that it included some incredibly fantastic times (such as our first-ever family trip to Disneyland!) and a few challenges, too (like trying to carve a somewhat orderly life out of the chaotic “remodel-recovery mode” in which we continue to operate). We survived—and thrived, as revealed in the “firsts” and “favorites” of each of us listed below:

KELLEN, 9

Firsts: piano lessons and recital, pet guinea pig (Root Beer), swim team (Kiwanis Piranhas), weekend campout (with his Webelos pack), magazine article assignment (for Living Without, about having food allergies).
Favorites: Pirates of the Caribbean (Disneyland ride), backstroke, French Children Sing (piano piece), “Oh, snap!” (catchphrase).

KERRICK, 7

Firsts: Ebay purchase (a Webkinz lava dragon), pet guinea pig (Prairie), swim team (Kiwanis Piranhas), overnight campout (with Kellen and Dad), top tooth lost (knocked out on accident by his friend with a bungee cord).
Favorites: Tower of Terror (Disneyland ride), freestyle stroke, Scout-o-Rama event, trading Pokemon cards, rock-climbing/rappeling (at an indoor gym).

KENNAH, 4

Firsts: bicycle (with pink training wheels), Webkinz (a pink pony), manicure/pedicure (with pink polish, of course), Broadway-scale musical (Little House on the Prairie).
Favorites: Cinderella (whom she met along with ALL the princesses at Disneyland), Pinkalicious and Purplicious (books), girl time (with mom, friends or cousins), babies (real and toy), shoes (all kinds).

KEILLOR, 2

Firsts: tricycle (he can steer, but not quite pedal), true trick-or-treating experience (he wore his “punkin’ suity”), haircut (NOT! He’s never had one, as mom can’t bear to do it yet!).
Favorites: It’s a Small World (Disneyland ride), “Super high!” (way to be pushed on a swing), “Beary, Doggy, Froggy” (stuffed animals), cars (real and toy), balls (all kinds).

SONYA

First: www.hemmings.com (blog!).
Favorite: Splash Mountain (Disneyland ride).

SHAWN

First: Cub Scout den leader.
Favorite: Thunder Mountain (Disneyland ride).

Wishing you all many firsts and favorites in 2010!

It’s Christmas Eve! Tonight’s the night! In light of that, I’m sharing Welcome to Our World, performed by Michael W. Smith on his CD Christmastime.

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